Offering Comfort to Someone Who Has Lost a Brother or Sister

Short, thoughtful messages to help you support someone grieving the loss of a sibling.

Losing a brother or sister can leave a deep and lasting pain. Whether the bond was close, complicated, or somewhere in between, the loss can be profound. These short condolence messages are written to help you support someone through this kind of grief with compassion, sincerity, and quiet strength.

Short Condolence Messages for a Sibling

Gentle and Supportive

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Thinking of you and sending strength.

I hope your sibling’s memory brings you comfort.

Holding you in my heart.

Wishing you peace during this difficult time.

When You’re Not Sure What to Say

I’m so sorry. I’m here for you.

I don’t have the right words, but I care deeply.

No words — just support and love.

Please know I’m thinking of you.

I’m with you in spirit.

I’m here, and thinking of you every day.

I know nothing I say can take away the pain, but I’m here to walk alongside you through it.

When Condolence Messages Are Just the Beginning

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Simple and Thoughtful

I’m truly sorry. Thinking of you today.

Sending love as you remember your brother/sister.

You’re in my thoughts.

Wishing you moments of peace and comfort.

My heart is with you.

Respectful and Personal

Your sibling’s memory will always be cherished.

They’ll never be forgotten — and always loved.

I hope the memories you shared bring you comfort.

You had a special bond. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Please know I’m here if you need to talk, or just sit quietly.

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