Short Condolence Messages for a Friend
Gentle words to express sympathy after the loss of a friend.
When someone close to you is grieving — whether they’ve lost a childhood friend, a companion, or someone who felt like family — it can be hard to know what to say. These short condolence messages are written to help you express sympathy gently and sincerely.
Whether you’re sending a card, a message, or speaking in person, these words can offer quiet comfort when they’re needed most.
Short Condolence Messages for a Friend
Simple and Supportive Words of Comfort
Gentle and Supportive
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m here for you.
Thinking of you and the friendship you shared.
Sending strength as you grieve the loss of someone so special.
May their memory bring you peace.
You’re not alone — I’m just a call away.
When You’re Not Sure What to Say
I wish I had the right words — I’m just thinking of you.
There’s nothing I can say that makes this easier, but I care deeply.
Please know I’m here, however you need me.
I’m so sorry — no words, just love and support.
I’m with you in spirit, always.
I’m here, even if I don’t have the right words.
Simple and Thoughtful
I’m so sorry. Thinking of you with care.
Sending love as you remember your friend.
Holding space for you today.
I hope you’re finding moments of peace in between the sadness.
They’ll always be remembered with warmth.
Thinking of you as you remember your friend and the good times you shared.
Respectful and Personal
Your friend’s kindness and spirit left a lasting mark. I’m truly sorry.
The stories you’ve shared say so much about the bond you had.
I hope you find comfort in those memories.
Wishing you peace in the days ahead.
Let me know if you’d like to talk or just sit quietly together.
🌿 When Condolence Messages Are Just the Beginning
A short condolence message can bring comfort in the moment — but someone close to you will also likely be facing the harder task: finding the right words to say goodbye at a service.
We can shape a first draft from their memories, ready for them to personalise — or offer gentle guidance on what they’ve written, so their tribute feels complete and personal.
Giving them space to grieve, be with loved ones, and focus on arrangements.
When You Want to Say More
Faith and Spiritual Comfort
May your friend rest in eternal peace, and may you find comfort in knowing their soul is held in love beyond this world. I pray that your heart finds healing and light in time.
In faith, we trust that this goodbye is not forever. Your friend’s spirit continues in a place of peace, and I hope your memories become a source of comfort and strength in the days to come.
Enduring Love and Legacy
The bond you shared wasn’t just about time spent — it was about deep understanding, trust, and love. That kind of connection doesn’t end here. Your friend’s legacy lives on in you.
Friendship like yours doesn’t fade with time or distance. Though they’re no longer beside you, your friend’s influence remains — in the memories, the laughter, and the love that will always stay with you.
Heartfelt and Reflective
Losing a close friend leaves an ache that words can barely touch. I hope the memories you shared bring moments of warmth and peace, and that you always carry their spirit close to your heart.
A true friend is never really gone — their laughter, support, and love live on in the moments you remember and the person you’ve become. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Celebrating a Life Well Lived
Your friend lived with heart, humour, and authenticity — and the impact they made will be felt for years to come. I hope you can smile at the memories, even as you grieve the loss.
Some friendships leave a lifelong imprint, and it’s clear yours was one of those. I hope you can celebrate the joy your friend brought into your life and find solace in their lasting presence.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long should a condolence message for a friend be?
One to three sentences is usually enough. A short condolence message can show real care without overwhelming the grieving person with too many words.
What should I say in a condolence message for someone who lost a friend?
Use their friend’s name, acknowledge the loss, and offer comfort. For example: “I was so sorry to hear of Daniel’s passing — sending you strength and peace.”
Is it okay to include a memory of their friend?
Yes. Sharing a short, positive memory can mean a lot: “I’ll always remember the adventures we shared with your friend and the laughter he brought.” Keep it brief and sincere.
Can I send condolences by text or social media?
Yes. A private text, card, or direct message is a kind way to reach out. Public posts should only be made if the family or close circle has shared the news openly and invited responses.
What if I didn’t know their friend personally?
That’s fine. Focus on supporting the person who is grieving: “I’m so sorry for your loss — thinking of you at this difficult time.” Your care for them is what matters most.
What should I avoid saying in a condolence message?
Avoid phrases that minimise grief, like “at least you had good times together” or “time heals all wounds.” Keep your words compassionate, respectful, and focused on their loss.
Can you help me write something longer than a short condolence?
Yes. If you’d like to share more, we can prepare a thoughtful Tribute Draft, provide a supportive Tribute Review, or craft a personalised elegy poem to help you honour their memory with care.
🕊️ A Gentle First Step in Writing a Tribute
If someone you know is struggling to begin their eulogy, funeral speech, or memorial tribute, we offer a free 150-word tribute opening to help them get started.
🌹 Other Thoughtful Ways to Honour a Friend
We’ve crafted a range of tribute examples that may offer comfort, inspiration, or a different tone. Whether you’re preparing more than a condolence message yourself — or helping someone else who is — these samples can gently guide the way.
Click below to explore each type in more detail:
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