Offering Comfort to Someone Who Has Lost a Cousin

Short, caring messages to help you support someone grieving the loss of a cousin or close family friend.

Cousins often feel like extended siblings — woven into childhood memories, family traditions, and life’s big moments. When someone loses a cousin, the grief can run deep. These short condolence messages are written to help you offer gentle support, kindness, and quiet comfort.

Short Condolence Messages for a Cousin

Gentle and Supportive

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Thinking of you and sending care.

Wishing you comfort as you remember them.

They’ll always hold a special place in your heart.

You’re in my thoughts during this time.

When You’re Not Sure What to Say

I’m so sorry — just know I’m thinking of you.

I’m here if you need anything at all.

I don’t have the right words, but I’m with you.

No words — just love and support.

I may not have the right words, but I’m here to support you however I can.

I know nothing can ease the pain, but I hope you feel supported and cared for.

When Condolence Messages Are Just the Beginning

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Simple and Thoughtful

So sorry to hear about your cousin.

Thinking of you today.

Sending you love and gentle support.

Wishing you peace and strength.

My heart is with you.

Respectful and Personal

Your cousin’s memory will always be treasured.

They clearly meant a great deal to you — I’m truly sorry.

I hope the stories you shared bring you comfort.

They’ll never be forgotten.

Please know I’m here for you in whatever way you need.

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