Short Condolence Messages for a Best Friend
Comforting condolence messages for the loss of a Best Friend.
When someone you care about is grieving the loss of their best friend, finding the right words can be difficult. These short condolence messages for the loss of a best friend are here to help you offer comfort with sincerity and respect — whether you’re writing a card, sending a message, or speaking in person.
You don’t need to say much to show that you care. Sometimes, just a few heartfelt words are enough to remind someone they’re not alone.
Short Condolence Messages for a Best Friend
Simple and Supportive Words of Comfort
Gentle and Supportive
I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a best friend is truly heartbreaking.
Thinking of you and sending strength, love, and quiet comfort.
Their presence in your life will never be forgotten.
Wishing you peace as you grieve, remember, and heal.
You’re in my thoughts — now and always.
When You’re Not Sure What to Say
I wish I had the perfect words — please just know I’m here.
Sometimes nothing feels right, but your grief matters deeply.
Losing your closest friend is a pain that’s hard to explain.
You’re not alone — I’m thinking of you and sending support.
Take your time — there’s no roadmap for this kind of loss.
Simple and Thoughtful
I’m so sorry. Holding you in my heart during this time.
Your best friend’s memory will always shine brightly.
May the bond you shared bring comfort now.
Sending gentle thoughts and sincere sympathy.
Thinking of you with warmth and care.
Respectful and Personal
Your best friend meant so much to you — I’m truly sorry for your loss.
The connection you shared was rare and incredibly special.
May the memories you made together bring strength and comfort.
Wishing you time to grieve, remember, and honour their life.
If you need someone to talk to or just sit with, I’m here.
💛 When Condolence Messages Are Just the Beginning
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We can help by shaping a thoughtful First Draft from their memories, or offering Gentle Guidance to bring their tribute together with clarity and care — giving them space for family and arrangements.
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When You Want to Say More
Heartfelt and Reflective
Your best friend was someone who knew your heart, stood by you through life’s storms, and made even the quiet moments feel meaningful. Their loss is immense — and so is the love you shared.
Thinking of you with heartfelt sympathy. May their memory be a source of comfort, and their presence felt in every story, smile, and silent moment.
Celebrating a Life Well Lived
Your best friend lived with heart, humour, and a rare kind of loyalty. The moments you shared were full of laughter, support, and deep understanding — the kind of connection not everyone is lucky enough to experience.
May you feel pride in the relationship you built, and comfort in the memories that will stay with you always.
Faith and Spiritual Comfort
May your best friend find eternal peace, and may you feel God’s presence guiding you through this grief. Their spirit lives on in the kindness they shared and the love they gave so freely.
I pray you find strength in your faith, and comfort in knowing that true friendship endures, even beyond this life.
Enduring Love and Legacy
A best friend leaves behind more than memories — they leave a mark on who we are. The love, trust, and connection you shared will never fade; it becomes part of you, woven into your daily life.
Wishing you peace as you carry that love forward, and strength as you grieve someone who meant so much.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long should a condolence message for a best friend be?
Keep it short — usually one to three sentences. A few heartfelt words are enough to show your care and support without overwhelming someone in grief.
What should I say in a short message to someone who lost their best friend?
Use their friend’s name, acknowledge the loss, and offer support. For example: “I was so sorry to hear of Jamie’s passing — holding you in my thoughts.”
Is it okay to include a memory of their best friend?
Yes — if you knew them personally, sharing one brief, positive memory can bring comfort. For instance: “I’ll always remember the laughter Jamie brought into every room.”
Can I send condolences by text or social media?
Yes. A private text, card, or message is often the quickest way to show support. Public posts should only be made if the family has already shared the news and welcomed responses.
What if I didn’t know their best friend well?
That’s fine. Focus on supporting the grieving person: “I’m so sorry for your loss — sending you strength and comfort.” Your message is about them, not your own connection.
What should I avoid saying in a condolence message?
Avoid clichés or phrases that minimise grief, such as “they’re in a better place” or “time heals.” Keep your message kind, simple, and sincere.
Can you help me write something longer than a short message?
Yes. If you’d like to express more, we can prepare a thoughtful Tribute Draft, provide a careful Tribute Review, or craft a personalised elegy poem to accompany a card, speech, or service.
🕊️ A Gentle First Step in Writing a Tribute
If someone you know is struggling to begin their eulogy, funeral speech, or memorial tribute, we offer a free 150-word tribute opening to help them get started.
🌹 Other Thoughtful Ways to Honour a Best Friend
We’ve crafted a range of tribute examples that may offer comfort, inspiration, or a different tone. Whether you’re preparing more than a condolence message yourself — or helping someone else who is — these samples can gently guide the way.
Click below to explore each type in more detail:
Eulogy Examples for a Best Friend | Memorial Tribute Examples for a Best Friend | RIP Message Examples for a Best Friend | Elegy Poem Examples for a Best Friend
Visit our guide: 20 Short Condolence Messages to Show You Care — filled with writing tips and more condolence message examples.