Offering Comfort to Someone Who Has Lost a Brother or Sister
Short, thoughtful condolence messages to help you support someone grieving the loss of a sibling.
Losing a brother or sister can leave a deep and lasting pain. Whether the bond was close, complicated, or somewhere in between, the loss can be profound. These short condolence messages are written to help you support someone through this kind of grief with compassion, sincerity, and quiet strength.
Short Condolence Messages for a Sibling
Simple and Supportive Words of Comfort
Gentle and Supportive
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Thinking of you and sending strength.
I hope your sibling’s memory brings you comfort.
Holding you in my heart.
Wishing you peace during this difficult time.
When You’re Not Sure What to Say
I’m so sorry. I’m here for you.
I don’t have the right words, but I care deeply.
No words — just support and love.
Please know I’m thinking of you.
I’m with you in spirit.
I’m here, and thinking of you every day.
I know nothing I say can take away the pain, but I’m here to walk alongside you through it.
Simple and Thoughtful
I’m truly sorry. Thinking of you today.
Sending love as you remember your brother/sister.
You’re in my thoughts.
Wishing you moments of peace and comfort.
My heart is with you.
Respectful and Personal
Your sibling’s memory will always be cherished.
They’ll never be forgotten — and always loved.
I hope the memories you shared bring you comfort.
You had a special bond. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Please know I’m here if you need to talk, or just sit quietly.
When Condolence Messages Are Just the Beginning
🕊️ A short condolence message can bring comfort in the moment — but someone close to you may soon face a harder task — finding the right words to say goodbye at a service.
Whether they’re unsure how to begin or struggling to finish a tribute, we offer two gentle ways to help — Tribute Drafts and Tribute Reviews. Gentle support to help their tribute come together with clarity and care.
When You Want to Say More
Faith and Spiritual Comfort
May your sibling rest peacefully in God’s embrace. I pray that your faith brings comfort and helps guide you through this difficult loss, knowing their soul is held in eternal love.
Even in your grief, I hope faith offers you some peace — reminding you that love never ends, and that your sibling’s spirit lives on in ways unseen, but deeply felt.
Enduring Love and Legacy
Siblings share a bond that runs deep — built on years of growing, laughing, and supporting one another. That love doesn’t end. It continues, living quietly in your heart and in every shared memory.
Your sibling’s love and spirit remain with you — in every story you tell, in every moment of silent remembrance, and in the deep connection that will never be lost. Their legacy is a part of you.
Heartfelt and Reflective
Losing a sibling means losing a piece of your shared history. I hope the memories you made together bring comfort, and that their love and presence remain with you always, in quiet and meaningful ways.
Your bond was one that only siblings can know — full of memories, laughter, and connection. I hope those memories bring strength during this painful time. I’m truly sorry for your loss.
Celebrating a Life Well Lived
Your sibling’s life was filled with moments worth remembering — laughter, kindness, and strength. I hope you can celebrate the beautiful parts of their story, even as you mourn the loss.
Though their chapter here has ended, your sibling lived a life that touched hearts and made a difference. That legacy deserves to be remembered and honoured for years to come.
Other Thoughtful Ways to Honour Your Sibling
We’ve crafted a range of example tributes that may offer comfort, inspiration, or a different tone. If you’re looking to say more — or say it differently — we hope these samples help gently guide your way.
Click below to explore each type in more detail:
Eulogy Examples for a Sibling | Memorial Tribute Examples for a Sibling | RIP Message Examples for a Sibling | Elegy Poem Examples for a Sibling
Visit our guide: 20 Short Condolence Messages to Show You Care — filled with writing tips and more condolence message examples.
🕯️ A Gift That Says Even More
While a condolence message offers a moment comfort, a personalised elegy poem offers a deeper expression - one that lasts.
Crafted from real memories, it’s something they can read at a service, keep by their side, or even frame as a lasting reminder of love.
It’s a gentle gift that can help someone begin to heal — with words they’ll never forget.